One of the most common problem with the youngsters of Ummah is "Dealing rudely with people who don’t share the same opinions as theirs". There are brothers who know how to get you angry, and sometimes just like to see you pissed off. They simply cannot accept the fact that their opinions are refuted and opposed.
It is really amazing to see the brothers who are known for their softest approach in preaching and suggesting their opinions to other brothers gets heated up like anything with anger. Sometimes, the situation becomes like a coke bottle that is shaken constantly and the pressure builds up to such a point that the slightest opening of the cap can cause it to explode right on your face. This is how some situations can make individuals become. Often times, people say stuff to discourage you from doing good. It is preferred to be a better person in the heated moment and not fueling the fire. Try not be swayed easily. These are the moments, that give us an opportunity to become extraordinary and set an example rather than being pathetic, degrading ourselves and others.
Such attitude starts to effect the mood and state of mind of those around you. The environment needs to foster cheerfulness, optimism, so just relax.
During such 'not kodak' moments, Shaytaan stands with a camera and says 'anger please' instead of 'smile please'.